TAKE MY MINGLE QUIZ
One of the most important things that you can do if you want to improve your mingle skills is to evaluate yourself.
Rate yourself on the comfort you feel on a scale of 0-10 for the category
All social situations:
(1) Making casual comments to a stranger _________ (0-10)
(2) Making conversation/small talk with a stranger _________ (0-10)
Dating:
(3) Asking about the single status _________ (0-10)
(4) Asking for contact information _________ (0-10)
Job Interview:
(5) Giving appropriate eye contact _________ (0-10)
(6) Remaining calm during conversation _________ (0-10)
Party/Social Gathering:
(7) Talking to someone who is introduced to you _________ (0-10)
(8) Talking to people in groups _________ (0-10)
Public Speaking:
(9) Remaining calm _________ (0-10)
(10) Avoiding using comments like "um" and "you know" _________ (0-10)
SCORING (out of a possible 40):
0-39 -- Mingle Baby. Get someone to help you lose the diapers. Do it for your own good.
40-59 -- Mediocre Mingler. Not terrible, not good. This is no way to go through life.
60-79 -- Decent Mingler. So close to really being good. Time to get over the hump.
80-89 -- Smooth Mingler. Now we are getting somewhere. If you reach this point, you are more than ready to hold your own in social situations.
90-100 -- Mingle Master. Don't worry if you can't reach this level. It is a rare individual.
Once you see what your weakness is, take steps to improve yourself in that area. I will be glad to help you with that process. Let me know how it's going for you.
Good luck!
Rate yourself on the comfort you feel on a scale of 0-10 for the category
All social situations:
(1) Making casual comments to a stranger _________ (0-10)
(2) Making conversation/small talk with a stranger _________ (0-10)
Dating:
(3) Asking about the single status _________ (0-10)
(4) Asking for contact information _________ (0-10)
Job Interview:
(5) Giving appropriate eye contact _________ (0-10)
(6) Remaining calm during conversation _________ (0-10)
Party/Social Gathering:
(7) Talking to someone who is introduced to you _________ (0-10)
(8) Talking to people in groups _________ (0-10)
Public Speaking:
(9) Remaining calm _________ (0-10)
(10) Avoiding using comments like "um" and "you know" _________ (0-10)
SCORING (out of a possible 40):
0-39 -- Mingle Baby. Get someone to help you lose the diapers. Do it for your own good.
40-59 -- Mediocre Mingler. Not terrible, not good. This is no way to go through life.
60-79 -- Decent Mingler. So close to really being good. Time to get over the hump.
80-89 -- Smooth Mingler. Now we are getting somewhere. If you reach this point, you are more than ready to hold your own in social situations.
90-100 -- Mingle Master. Don't worry if you can't reach this level. It is a rare individual.
Once you see what your weakness is, take steps to improve yourself in that area. I will be glad to help you with that process. Let me know how it's going for you.
Good luck!